Even More Rape Apologia on A Voice for Men With a BDSM Twist

Jalon Cain aka Aaron Sleazy actually wrote this:

The feminist fantasy of “enthusiastic consent” is bullshit. What you experience in real life is that interested women will give off “maybe” signals. They may play with their hair and smile from ear to ear while tempting you with seductive glances but, at the end of the date, the burden to approach is typically on you.

Feminists aren’t living in fantasy. We live in the real world where enthusiastic consent is the dividing line between consensual sex and rape. Playing with your hair doesn’t mean ‘yes’. Why is it a burden for men to approach? Well it’s a scary thing thinking about how an MRA would approach because they’re such rape apologists it’s not funny. The great thing about feminism is it allows women to approach.

Jalon’s article seems to be chiding PUA’s but in reality he’s angry at women. He mentions the term LMR, which stands for ‘last minute resistance’ which PUA’s coined. The definition of this term is equally rapey.

‘LMR is a biological response that causes a woman to freeze up before having sex. Mystery claims that this response is universal, and that it evolved because of the evolutionary high stakes of having sex with a man, and because of the threat of potentially becoming pregnant and vulnerable.’

I can’t believe the lengths men will go to just to have sex rape. They literally write books on this crap, inventing all these silly acronyms to tell other men how to coerce women.

Jalon is angry at PUA’s and LMR but has his own theories as to how PUA works.

‘Here is the problem: there are girls who might be interested in you but who are not willing to sleep with you — yet.’

Where PUA’s encourage constant coercion Jalon is saying just wait it out and she might say yes! Gee Jalon, that advice is soooo much better.

He also rants about women who aren’t good in bed and end up turning the poor dude off.

‘What would you think if such an incompetent girl used force to “overcome your LMR,” ripped on your foreskin as she’s whacking you, followed by an excruciating knob gobble then climbed on top of  you to lay a dead fish in your mouth as she’s kissing you?’

When guys say vaginas are dead fish you have to wonder whether they’ve actually been close to a vagina. The graphic terms Jalon is using makes him a hostile misogynist. You wanna know where he’s going with this graphic tale?

‘This would be an utterly horrible experience, wouldn’t it? Many feminists claim that only men can rape but, if this happened to you, you could legitimately say that you’ve been raped and violated in multiple ways, and that this experience has traumatized you.’

You see ladies, if you are with a guy and he doesn’t LIKE your sexual STYLE then you’ve traumatized the poor guy and get this: YOU RAPED HIM! OMAGERD!11 If the guy doesn’t feel like the blowjob was ‘competent’ enough then you’ve given him PTSD and raped him all at once. He might’ve been trying to say that this is a consent issue but he used the word imcompetent and slurs about lady bits so I think he’s just talking about a woman who takes the lead in bed that he views as crazy.

Instead of recognizing LMR for what it is (rapey coercion talk) Jalon’s more interested in saying it’s WOMEN who are to blame, that women who resist are problematic. For all Jalon’s talk about how wrong PUA’s are he still doesn’t quite understand the concept of consent, which he already said was ‘bullshit.’

‘Normal people are able to read facial expressions and can use that skill to keep things hot and heavy, correcting when they accidentally inflict pain. Under continued rejection it would be normal to assume that the girl has a good reason for not wanting to follow through and sleep with the guy.’

This is starting to sound like BDSM for which I think Jalon has an inclination. Continued rejection is rape after the first rejection. I don’t understand why guys have such a hard time understanding consent. It’s such a simple concept and yes, feminists have made it so simple that you don’t need a guidebook to figure it out. No means NO. Incapacitated in any way means NO. Only YES means YES and you need to actually verbally communicate it.

Jalon gives us a little personal anecdote about what seems to be BDSM:

‘I once had a girlfriend whose gynaecologist tried to get her to press charges against me when she had a few love bites on several parts on her body. All it takes is a weak-minded girl who agrees with her doctor that her boyfriend “is a brute and needs to be taught a lesson,” or a vindictive girl who is pissed off because you didn’t call her back.’

Sounds to me like things got rough and Jalon inflicted some kind of injury on his girlfriend in his attempt with BDSM because later he talks about it again, this time with another woman:

‘One fine, early morning I found myself in the apartment of a girl I had met only a couple of hours previouly, and we were going at it. All of a sudden she bit me hard and then, like a maniac, scratched me hard enough to draw blood. I thought this was quite hot, but it didn’t take long until she demanded that I hit her. Thankfully I was alert enough to get the hell out of there.’

Hmmm. That’s very strange. Sounds like you like to get rough Jalon and may have hurt your ex only to find another woman who you could be rough with but SHE took the initiative and this wasn’t part of your plan because you learned earlier that you can’t just be rough without CONSENT. People are entitled to have sexual preference but these two stories sound a bit odd to me. I’m not going to give you the benefit of the doubt Jalon since you’re a misogynist and a rape apologist and since you ended your fantastical rambling like this:

‘If you’ve stumbled upon the very small minority of women who indeed want to “test your manliness” you’re better off leaving them alone.

There is enough trouble in the world without adding psycho girlfriends to the list.’

I think it’s safe to say that you should stay away from women. LMR is bullshit Jalon, not consent.

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