Most of my readership probably doesn’t follow the ‘feminist community’ on Youtube. I put it in quotes because it’s not really what I consider a feminist community. It caters to men much of the time. You all remember LaughingWitch’s video screaming because I had the gumption to state there are these human beings called FEMALES who are NOT males and who have a completely different sociopolitical experience of life being the oppressed group?
I barely follow this community myself but this shit just couldn’t be ignored because I still sub to one user who is aware of all this. A few months ago I came in contact with this particular group of people and I found out quickly that many of them weren’t really feminists. I don’t consider men feminists. The other reason I don’t consider many of these people feminists is they don’t argue the point. Instead they do the typical name calling completely devoid of analysis just like MRA’s.
This video was made by SequesterZone after he had a falling out with his ‘non-girlfriend’ who he ‘loves’ and ‘wanted to save’, ExtremelyBoring. Now she’s been here to rail at me over the twanz and all sorts of other nonsense but because she couldn’t argue the point I dismissed her. She considers herself radical, which I found highly amusing.
I’ve watched many of SZ’s videos over the past few months and while I liked many of them, well, this video shows him in a light I cannot ignore.
Her and SZ had a falling out about him apparently flirting with another woman and being sexually suggestive. SZ considers himself a feminist, which this video clearly shows he’s not. He’s done with feminists b/c he got in a squabble w/ his ‘non-girlfriend.’ You’ll see:
To open up a woman like that online is abusive. Countering a claim of harassment didn’t require this foray into her personal life, her bipolar disorder, her ‘lack of real life friends’, her ‘laziness’, her ‘cheating,’ and the constant mansplainy definitions of abuse which you definitely engaged in. You could’ve just stated your case without painting this picture of her as a crazy, hysterical woman after your money. It’s highly manipulative.
If you knew she was polyam why would you, someone monogamous, even try it? It seemed like you wanted to change her. If she doesn’t want disability or a job then who made you boss of her life? It sounds to me more like you wanted to make her something she’s not to fit your needs.
You did call yourself stupid, and yes, yes you are. At the very least, you did admit that. But you’re now manipulating and tainting her to the world.
You know Youtube is a cesspool of misogynists and know how they attacked Zoe Quinn over some idiot’s claim of non-existent cheating. You know how MRA’s go after women they instantly deem mentally ill or their stupid gold digger’ references. You also did the whole ‘men are disposable’ thing by making it sound like she was using you to get money. All in that environment.
If any of the Youtubers mentioned want to come here that’s fine. If you start calling me an evil radfem or go down the twanz you won’t be published. It’s that simple. You WILL respect this woman focused space and you WILL respect me.